When you love someone, it's not only about loving the easy-to-love part of that person, but it is also loving the not-so-easy-to-love part of that person.
When you choose to love, you will have to love the person in good time and in bad time. It's a chore to love. It's a job to love. You just cannot unlove the person because he/she did something wrong. Your brain will tell you one thing but your heart will tell you otherwise.
So, if you love a person, it's a job and a chore to love not only the good of that person, but also the bad. This is what you would call, "loving he/she for who he/she is and will ever be".
Food for thought for everyone to think about what relationship is all about.
Monday, July 18, 2011
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Emotional roller coaster
What can I say about my life? It's just full of excitement!
Job's getting tougher and having a new boss who don't know where to start to provide for support. But that's fine, I know what I signed up for and why I'm being paid for what I do. I just have to get used to the new found stress, building the plane while I'm flying it and hope I get to a safe landing after that.
Meanwhile, my oh-so-loyal car finally gave up on me after 7.5 yrs at the age of 20. Cost of bringing it back to life is not even worthwhile anymore. So I will have to part with the money to pay for downpayment for a Perodua MyVi. At the same time I'm paying a huge sum for my Melbourne trip. So, everything just couldn't have happen at a "better" time. *being sarcastic*
Then there is other thing in life that I just don't know what to do and what else I can about anymore. There's nothing I can do about it from the beginning anyway. You can't lose something that you never own.
Great!!! I bet ya there's tonnes of people out there who are so jealous about how interesting and exciting my life is right now. Woooo hooooo!!!
Like what they always say, "what can't kill you, makes you stronger"!!!
Life is so beautiful!
Job's getting tougher and having a new boss who don't know where to start to provide for support. But that's fine, I know what I signed up for and why I'm being paid for what I do. I just have to get used to the new found stress, building the plane while I'm flying it and hope I get to a safe landing after that.
Meanwhile, my oh-so-loyal car finally gave up on me after 7.5 yrs at the age of 20. Cost of bringing it back to life is not even worthwhile anymore. So I will have to part with the money to pay for downpayment for a Perodua MyVi. At the same time I'm paying a huge sum for my Melbourne trip. So, everything just couldn't have happen at a "better" time. *being sarcastic*
Then there is other thing in life that I just don't know what to do and what else I can about anymore. There's nothing I can do about it from the beginning anyway. You can't lose something that you never own.
Great!!! I bet ya there's tonnes of people out there who are so jealous about how interesting and exciting my life is right now. Woooo hooooo!!!
Like what they always say, "what can't kill you, makes you stronger"!!!
Life is so beautiful!
Sunday, July 10, 2011
True Love is...
Two person who know each other's fault and weaknesses and yet they just love each other even more
-The Bounty Hunter-
Wednesday, July 06, 2011
"Why" I love who I love
We don't pick who we fall in love with, and it never happens like it should
- No Strings Attached-
Tuesday, July 05, 2011
To Lose and To Live
Aren't we all afraid to lose? To lose our wealth, to lose material stuff, to lose a family member or to lose the love of our life?
When I've lost it before, I'm not afraid to lose it again anymore. The feeling of being through hell and back again isn't the most pleasant definitely. But what is there to be afraid to go to hell if I've been through hell already?
When we were younger, we all learnt to stand back on our feet again when we stumbled and tripped by a rock. But somehow as we grow older, we forget that. We get so afraid of doing something out of the way and try to stay in the safest path so that we don't fall or trip. However, we totally forgot that it is the lesson that we learnt from tripping over the same rock that shaped us to be who we are today.
Ever feel why you are doing something you dreaded to do in the morning you commute to work? The feeling of getting stuck to a life that the society perceives as a norm?
Well, I feel that all the time. But I'm determined to deviate myself from such a life as much as I possibly can. There are definitely some that I can't move myself away from, after all I live in a society. But I'm going to live "my" life!
When I've lost it before, I'm not afraid to lose it again anymore. The feeling of being through hell and back again isn't the most pleasant definitely. But what is there to be afraid to go to hell if I've been through hell already?
When we were younger, we all learnt to stand back on our feet again when we stumbled and tripped by a rock. But somehow as we grow older, we forget that. We get so afraid of doing something out of the way and try to stay in the safest path so that we don't fall or trip. However, we totally forgot that it is the lesson that we learnt from tripping over the same rock that shaped us to be who we are today.
Ever feel why you are doing something you dreaded to do in the morning you commute to work? The feeling of getting stuck to a life that the society perceives as a norm?
Well, I feel that all the time. But I'm determined to deviate myself from such a life as much as I possibly can. There are definitely some that I can't move myself away from, after all I live in a society. But I'm going to live "my" life!
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